Its strange for me to choose this topic, but recent events have forced me to believe that most men are cursed, very few ...i mean really few probably a one out of a 1000 are spared by it.
I mean why is it assumed that every man approaches a woman for only one reason..i mean its ridiculus for most men and women to think that there is just one connection to be made.
There are men and women alike who are brought up in very cosmo surroundings, where the distinction is hardly made between the two sexes in day to day life. They just see a complete set of friends to have some men as well as some women. Afterall, its this diversity which helps an individual grow in totality. Both genders are hardly distinguished, a diner with a girl as is seen similar to a dinner with a guy and no questions of what happened later are asked. The physical pleasure is hardly ever seen as important, there is plenty to grab and nobody cares a shit about it. Freindships are what people see in relationships and that is the only motive for an action towards anybody...male or female.
Obviosuly there are some from the opposite gender that will atract you but your urge to be anythign sexual comes only in two circumstances. First, when both of you have got to know each other well, very well indeed and you and the other person are sure of what you want to do. Secondly, when both of you dunno each other but accept for a one night stand or a fling or just a 15 min ..u know what. But either is driven by a mutual consent, afterall havin fun is the reason for living .some people might call it being content and happy ...but i prefer to cal it fun.
Thats how it works in the civilized world where i come from. But i guess its not the same with everyone, and definitely not at all places.
In these places and of those people i talk about now are the sorts who can just attach one motive for any gesture, any touch, any hand of acquintance or frienship. How can I or any person with any sense do everything with the opposite gender with one motive...I mean how can one??? The norms of these people and society are so bloody different, it can twist any level headed guy who might be acting without any motive. I feel these people and palces havent developed the maturity of seeing people as people, rather they jump so fast to clasify them in either of the two gender as if fuckin my genitals are the only organ which define me.
I hate those people who feel any act directed towards them is an act directed at one thing, how freakin self obsessed. Cant it bloody just be a sweet geture or just a random gesture without any motive or anything...but i guess i wont understand them..n they wont understand me.
And more than females, the motives are attached to male. A female can get away with it but a man hardly ever..guys believe it so easily as if they know there is a evil lurkin in them n they feel its common to men, girls take clue fast coz they love to discard men and feel more important as if they were desired...This is a mans curse...And india is prob the worst place ..the curse seems to be in full action...i partly belive its bcoz most of us are sex starved and r taught sex is a taboo..wen its not...its just another act..but watver that aitn my point today...the point is a MANS CURSE....i hate the curse to inflicted upon me by people who couldnt matter less in their opinion but could make it worse for me in thier judgement.
it feels useless to write this bloody blog, thought theres a lot many more points i would like to touch upon, but i stop here. Coz it makes no fuckin difference to the people who will read it..or prob no one ever will. What makes me stop is either of these two reasons, which one i dunno...
Rock On!! and please be open minded..
