7 Women Myths! Explained.

You have read what women want. But have you read between the lines?? Everything about women is like an iceberg, what we see is just the tip, and a far more lies beneath the surface. Here, I take you through 7 common women wowing secrets and their reality check.

1. They want you to make the move, but not to be pushy. They love the first move, the attention, the offer of a dinner. But ever so often, after a good response on initiation men try their best to charm them and end up trying too hard and being pushy. Even if you do succeed, it is not because of it but despite of it. Play it smooth, do send her a text that it was great meeting her and you hope to see her soon. But don’t go on texting cheesy lines. With the first message she got the hint. "A little mystery" is not just attractive to men, women dig it too. Make the move, but let her take a step or two too. (Respond to hers with great joy and excitement)

2. Women love attention, but give a little to other women too. Little competition spurs the woman in them. If you enter a room and compliment her from head to toe and focus only on her, she will soon be playing Princess Diana. Compliment her genuinely on one or two aspects, but make sure you give a compliment (non-flirty, ofcourse!) to some other women in the group too. So, while you might tell your women that she looks hot, you love her eyes etc. drop in a compliment on how you admire her friend’s heels or dress. Then see her wearing a nice pair for you next time you are out, and hoping (read dying) for you to notice. 

3. Women love surprises, but when they do not expect it. So, hold your own in most circumstances and do not go out of your way to surprise her, but every once in a while do something she never expected out of “You”. Surprise is not about what she would like, but something you would normally never do, but would once in a while only for her.

E.g. if she is out partying with her friends and she texts "missing you sweetheart" do not jump and call her, message her a simple "miss you too honey, enjoy". But once in a while, drop by to pick her up, take her for a drive and drop her home.

4. Men should be good listeners. Men should be great conversationalists is what she means. It is about your opinions and how you respond in discussion, how you express and articulate. So listening is important but being a “good talker” is more important. (Have you ever heard a women go "Gosh! He listens so well", but I bet you have heard "Gosh! he speaks soooo weeelll" ) Women will always love a great talker over a great listener, but leave no room for others - do both. Listen to her and then talk with confidence and intelligence.

5. Sense of humor is a turn on. As any normal person, she likes to have fun, laugh and enjoy herself. So yes, sense of humour helps, but women anyway laugh more on jokes cracked by men they like. In fact, it is one of the first signs of attraction when she laughs at your stupid jokes. So if you have it, great, if you don't, it’s OK. Focus on making things fun, spontaneous and exciting. This is what the humor is intended to do, but one can do it in thousand other ways. Making a great evening plan, sudden highway drives, late-night junk food sessions, trek over the weekend etc. Go out there, enjoy yourself and make sure she does too.

6. “F” Word. Friends matter. Some “fun” guy pals and some good looking girl friends help. Women find you more attractive as it speaks about your desirability. Good looking women as friends are also important, as it says "I am not with you because I jump at the first gorgeous woman I see" but because " I love who you are, and yes, I do think you are the best looking woman in the world". Also, every time you are out with your friends, the fact that you have fun and nice looking people around does make her realize that you can have fun on your own, despite how much you need her. This goes a mile, as every woman wants a guy who can stand his own.

7. Women are confused. Aren't we all? So do not break your head too much on being the pro. Be yourself, be confident and be positive. These three things will make you shine through all her PMS's, confusions and mood swings.

So respect the woman you love and take joy and pride in her growth and story. When you see her story grow, do not, I repeat, DO NOT try to plug yourself in, she will do the needful.