NEVER TAKE THE NUMBER!!

This one is short and sweet and only for the privileged few who can and have connected to the opposite sex in just 5 mins. more than once...

It weird that we meet so many people, some of them seem to just have a connect with us. We end up meeting them through a friend, on a journey, anywhere!! We start talking to them..and we fall into the beauty of this conversation, we fall in love with the way they do things..the way they speak.and what they speak..for different reasons we see in them a hope ..a hope of love..of fulfillment..n a lot more..

Like any other evening, it also comes to an end. curtains draw close and in our love for holding onto whatever we have got..we ask for their number. We get it..and we couldn't have been happier or ....fooler.

what is going to happen is common trajectory which can take either of the three paths..one of which is stupid, one can be termed "mistake" ..third according to me is suicidal.

Trajectory 1: We realize their or our growing dis-interest and dreams comes crashing down. Hopes squashed forever. stupidity.

Trajectory 2: Growing Interest, An affair, few months ..you realize the hope they promised was a mirage. Hope takes a bitter turn..you suffer. break up. mistake!

Trajectory 3: Growing Interest. Affair. Growing Dependence. Life Time Commitment (call it marriage, if u must). the deviation from hope is either acceptable to you or you have increased your tolerance level substantially. Hope becomes faith, a forward lookin concept provides you solace only when you look back at the years spent by. Any chance of more hope, better hope or a forward looking hope turned to NIL. Suicidal!!

My advice...don't take that number..resist it..take the risk...you will have a life full of hope and surprise (you never know when again you meet them) and you will have a lot many more hopes..with the possibilities of more hope in your life.

AVOID THE NUMBER, KEEP ALIVE HOPE!!